The differences is gassing up takes 5 minutes, charging even when going well can be a 30-45 minute visit. And as you know constant fast charging wears the battery more. And finally depending on what part of the country you are in fast charging network may be next to non-existent. We went 2 EVs knowing any trip more than about 150 miles round trip would likely require a gas rental. Metro Atlanta has some chargers, but if I were to go Atlanta to Chattanooga (90 miles) there is one fast charger along the way meaning if I could not charge in Chattanooga I could be stranded. Same thing for Atlanta to Augusta, Savannah, etc.
We still opted for 2 EVs because we know the charging network will improve. Also we rarely do more than 100 miles in a day so charging at home works for us.
Oh I know. Had an ev with no at home charging since May.
The thing missing is that if you shop at the right place you can charge whilst shopping:having your nails done/going to the gym, going to the park etc.
I think having home charging would be a lovely luxury but what percentage of America can have that? What percentage of city dwellers?
There are 4 evs in our building. All charging on public chargers. We all get it done. It is not a terrible burden. We try and efficiently charge (meaning charge whilst doing something else)
I have also done a 1200 mile trip with my ev. Was easy. No problems. There are places you cannot ev to at the moment. Routes you cannot take. I live in Seattle and have ev travelled only in Oregon and ca so know idea about the rest of the country.
In ice cars we have done a 12 thousand mile road trip and multiple 3-5 thousand mile trips and I just admit I would not do the 12k in an ev as there were some dodgy stretches

and the 3-5k only with planning.
Things are not perfect but they are also far from broken.
That said where are the worst places in america to have an ev?